Why He Went Ghost On Her: Since we went on five dates and he’s my boss’s best friend, I texted – ‘What happened? I’m in a weird place.’ This was right after we slept together for the first time. I was sharing stories about my travels and he kept saying, ‘Oh my god you are amazing. ’ We sat at the bar and talked and he kept telling me how much he liked me and wanted to see me again.
He texted me every single day—about the weather, his weekend plans, what he had for dinner.Then when Ansari asked the crowd how they preferred people treat while dating, the majority of the audience applauded when he said, “And finally, clap if you prefer that they are honest with you.” And that’s par for the course with dating, among other things, today.We say one thing, but actually mean something else.Finally, he said he was worried I had been in an accident and was coming to my house, which is when I had to jump in and tell him I didn't think we were going anywhere.Why She Ghosted: I think with the advent of Tinder and Hinge I got in the mindset that there are always more options out there.